Can someone enjoy an event and still feel overwhelmed by the end?
My autistic child used to enjoy firework displays. Sometimes he wet himself afterwards, became distressed near the end in a way others might call a “tantrum”, or both. Enjoyment and overload can coexist. I now think about the whole outing, including the journey home and recovery time, rather than judging it only by whether someone smiled during the display.
This can happen at any crowded, unfamiliar or infrequent setting: celebrations, school events, shops, appointments, concerts or a change of routine. What signs tell you a child or supported adult needs less input, a break or a way to leave?
Ideas include a short preview and exit plan, checking in without pressure, preferred ear defenders or noise-cancelling headphones, a quieter viewing point, toilet and drink breaks, a familiar diversion, a calm space and time to recover afterwards. Ask what the person wants and adjust for communication, mobility, continence and sensory needs. New or persistent wetting may need a health check as well.
What has worked for someone you support? Please share general approaches without names or identifying care details.
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